Our children are the flowers of the garden called society, let them bloom by themselves. If your answer is ITBT workers, technologists, software hardware workers,, etc. to the question of who are the busiest st and busy people in current social life then I think it is a wrong answer. Why I feel this way is because I think the busiest people in this society are our “kids” yes take a look at the little kids schooling around us, They are leading such a stressful realization besides, they are carrying the pain inside without telling anyone. If you want to see the real living gods, look at your children. The real gods are the children. In my experience, the newly formed innocent little spirit forces.


Such a pure mind, without the slightest impurity, without even a shred of evil mind, the Jivas who have come down from the infinite. All the children around us are like wonderfully knitted light yarns. As there are spots of innocence. They walk straight, speak as they see, stutter, don't know what to do, copy what others say, ask the same questions over and over again, and never stand still. It is as true as the day sun that they are the whole people of this society. Children are such beautiful minds that they have a kind of vivid direct experience speaking to them all. How beautiful is the way of answering boldly without any distinction between superior and inferior, hatred and envy, caste and opinion, elder and younger, man and animal, words that do not harm or hurt? It seems that we adults are playing with such innocent minds' lives. Self: We are all stressing their lives and making them narrow-minded children. 

We who acquire crores of property for our children do not pay attention to what kind of property our children want. We are forcing them to do what we want and not allowing them to grow up as children. Before a child can just adjust to the home environment, we try to teach him heavy subjects. Within a few months of birth, we pressurize the father, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, grandfather, etc. to tell. If you're a little older, walk, run, get over it, don't go there, don't get down there, there's water, don't go there, there's a stone, don't fall, and so on. It is important to note that children learn many forms of imitation at an early age, most of which are learned through pressure from adults and not out of self-interest. If you ask what should not be said to our children, then my answer is to understand your children's mind minds and nurture them according to their desires, only then will the self-confidence of the children increase.

They also get the courage to think. Their brains also work. They too will have the freedom to grow and mature. All I want is for your children to be what they want to be. No more KG. From PG to PG, the life of a school learner is indescribable. A heavy book should be taken out, ten to twelve things, a dozen notebooks, six books, a big bag, Abba, the question of whether our child needs so much weight, we as elders have nothing to do. There is pressure to get more marks than the kids from the neighboring house. Only if you pass the rank will you take the cycle, you have to study, you have to get the rank, you have to score ninety, how busy are the future social lives between us, isn't it? It is surprising to observe the daily routine of our children today. At 4 o'clock in the morning, you should look at that time and start reading.

After completing the morning routine work, go to the morning tuition, and learn more than three subjects through tuition. School at nine in the morning, where everything that the teacher said should be put in that little head, the memory should be scraped when stressed. If not, the father should listen to the mother's excuses and should read this. By the time we listen to and digest our teacher's words, it will be evening and we have to go home and have a magic meal like Maggi and go to music class, computer class, etc. and learn it. Our children were crying that they were not interested in these things, they wanted to study for the prestige of their parents.

After ED years of education, if you want to spend the summer in your grandmother's hometown with the children of the village environment, you don't have to leave the summer camps. After hearing the words that we will transform your children into scientists and IAS, it ended and learning started under pressure again in the summer camp. As parents, we never thought about how useful and dangerous summer camp is for children who have been busy in school for many years. Whether it's sunny or raining, you have to read and write, our children today are full of possibilities that have gone far away from worldly knowledge and village life. Looking at the realities of today's children, they feel that they have very little freedom of choice. What they wanted to happen was almost too much parental pressure. 

The words of the parents are heard that our children are not behaving as we say. There is a lot of lack of coordination between children and parents. Today we are in the presence of the truth that what the father said to the children does not happen, and what the children say to the mother does not happen. That is why many old-age homes are emerging today. We find one story in the life of every old man there. Dear Parents Our children are from us and not remote puppets who do as we say. Not magic spells that bring marks. Their wishes also need to be respected. They need to discover their hidden skills and encourage them to grow accordingly.

Today, if Sachin Tendulkar was pressured to become a singer, we would not have got the God of "Cricket". Accordingly, we all have to find out what the children are interested in and support their wishes. In the summer, your children go to your village and stay with their grandparents, so let them go there. Let's learn along with rural reality. My request is that our children are fragrant flowers in the garden of our society, let them bloom freely, and let your children grow up as good people in society as they wish.